Upcoming events
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Alwun House First Friday with a Kink
February 8th - 6pm to 10pm
Get ready for a tantalizing night that’s equal parts playful, provocative, and packed with surprises! This Valentine’s season, spice up your First Friday plans with a one-of-a-kind pop-up arts market and adult-themed costume party. 💋 Valentines Shopping with a Twist. Find the perfect gift for your Valentine—or yourself! —as you browse a vibrant marketplace featuring: Handcrafted erotic toys, paddles, whips, and floggers - stunning explicit art alongside unique jewelry and specialized accessories all made by talented local artisans. 🎶 Seting the Mood DJ Alice Valkyrie will keep the energy pulsing with sexy beats to match the sultry atmosphere. 🎨 Live Performances Immerse yourself in the artistry with: Body painting: Watch live masterpieces come to life on the human canvas - Shibari demonstrations: Experience the beauty of rope art with hand-crafted, soft ropes which are also available for purchase. Madame C will be cracking her whips from above. Indulge Your Cravings savor the cheeky delights of penis and pussy-shaped waffles, or dive into Crave Hot Dogs & BBQ’s mouthwatering menu. Plus, sip on wickedly delicious brews with Voodoo Ranger’s adult ales, cocktails and love potions. Come Dressed to Impress because this isn’t your average costume party! Don your best Valentine’s or fetish-inspired attire and let your imagination run wild. Join us for a night where art meets desire, costumes spark creativity, and community comes together to celebrate love in all its playful forms. Don’t miss First Friday with a Kink—it’s sure to be the naughtiest Valentines Market in town!
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APEX Bizarre Bazaar 2025
March 29 - 10am to 4pm
Advance ticket sales end on March 24th at 11:30 PM
Support Local and Kinky Businesses: With over 30 vendors, you’ll find a dazzling array of unique goods while supporting the passionate creators and entrepreneurs in our community.
Foster Community: This event is a perfect opportunity to connect, meet like-minded people, and celebrate our shared values.
Fundraising Fun: Proceeds from this event help support APEX’s ongoing mission to provide education, resources, and safe spaces for the kink and BDSM communities. This is a vital fundraiser for our non-profit, volunteer-run member dungeon, ensuring we can continue providing the safe and welcoming environment our community relies on.
Let’s Make Memories Together
There’s an electric buzz in the air every time we host an event like this. From the joyful conversations to the thrill of finding the perfect item, Bizarre Bazaar is more than just a marketplace—it’s a celebration of our vibrant community. We can’t wait to see you there!Stay tuned for updates and sneak peeks at what’s to come. Follow APEX on social media, and don’t forget to invite your friends to join in on the fun. Let’s make Bizarre Bazaar 2025 an unforgettable day!
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Scissortail Leather Conference Oklahoma
June 6 - June 8, 2025
Scissortail Leather Conference Oklahoma is an educational event focused on authority transfer and power exchange relationships. It is held in Tulsa, Oklahoma and includes educational classes led by national and local presenters, panel discussions, networking opportunities, and a power exchange title contest.

Spank University's Yuletide Beatings Party
This is a placeholder event for our holiday spanking party in Phoenix. December 9th location TBD, between 7pm-1130pm.
New member orientation and intro to the spanking scene presentation will be provided a couple times prior to the party. Stay tuned for more details here.

New Mexico Leather Fiesta
Check out the Leather Fiesta 2023 Program Tab for more information